IS IT RIGHT TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH AN EX-LOVER?

Is it right to remain friends with an EX-LOVER? This is a question that a lot, a whole lot of people ask.

And it’s a sure tricky one. It’s one that divides the room. For some people it’s something that should never be done. For some others, yes it should be.

For Mr. Eke, yes, they should remain friends. He even opined attending the wedding of an ex, even being part of the committee of friends!

ALSO READ: WHAT I DID WHEN I GOT A FULL TIME JOB AS AN UNDERGRADUATE ~ Rejoice

For Ms Akpan, No, No, No, there should be dilly dallying with an ex-lover. It should just end.

In this age of blocks and unblocks. It’s very easy. A whole lot of people, once the relationship is ruined. The next thing is to block all communications.

Then, there is this other set who do believe in Okafor’s Law. For the reason of this Okafor’s Law, they stay around.

Now, I know a few people who have called in a few favours because the one calling the shots happen to be an ex lover.

The truth about this whole thing depends on how deep the love between the two lovers were. If it ain’t that deep, it would die a natural death. But if it is, and one person flipped out, then it’s not healthy.

Cos you would always have an unbalanced equation. One person would get to suffer emotionally, where the other person has no space to feel anything at all.

What you should do if you find yourself in this kind of situation is to evaluate the situation.

ALSO READ: 3 GUYS, ONE LADY, ROOMMATES; THE INTERVIEW!

Can you guys remain friends? Would you say no to this ex-lover, as you would say no to any other person?

If you are sure there’s not itsy bitsy mushy feeling on any sides, then you both can go on being friends. But in the event of one party still in it, then block and move is the code!