Why I Abandoned My Wedding on Saturday (Warning: This is a long read) Dear sir, On the day I finally went to meet my girlfriend's parents officially, I went with a basket of fruits. We had been dating for over a year, as at that time.We met at her place of work. I was then …
4 ways Poverty affects Nigeria’s dating pool
4 ways poverty affects Nigeria's dating pool Poverty has literally affected all part of Nigeria. Today, I want to share with you 4 ways poverty has affected Nigeria's dating pool A young person in Nigeria can almost kiss the whole idea of love goodbye. As love is almost a mirage. Sometimes, I want to cast …
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How to organize a Nigerian wedding with just N1,000,000
How to organize a Nigerian wedding with N1,000,000 If money has been the reason your wedding has not happened yet, find out how N1,000,000 can create a Nigerian wedding for you. Organizing a wedding in Nigeria is never an easy feat. We are a people with serious love for enjoyment and jollification. So the kind …
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If you are married and want to stay faithful, please stay away from:
If you are married and want to stay faithful, please stay away from these .... If you are married and want to stay faithful, please stay away from these 12 I am about to share with you. 1. Your ex or exes The very first number you want to stay away from has to be …
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SUICIDE TOLL: To die or not to die? What should you do?
Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com So I saw a post on the number of suicides in January 2026, about the increasing number of suicides and contacts on my contact list was making this repost about suicide awareness and people being kind to one another. I never wanted to talk about it, because to a …
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SEX MADE ME LOSE MY MARRIAGE
Photo by Alex Green on Pexels.com This is a true life story of a 39 year old Nigerian lady, and her marital woes. A tale of how sex made her lose her marriage. Statistics show that there are two major causes of divorce in marriage. The very first one is money and the second one …
Discover 21 examples of micro-cheating and how you can avoid it
There are things that you learn that you never knew you needed to learn. One of those is 21 examples of micro-cheating. I am learning a few things from my baby and I am applying. While I like to run away from relationship talks, I feel like this one I should show it to you. …
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6 Common Manipulation Tactics Some Women Use to Control Men
Control is very vital in every relationship. Most times, in a relationship, there is more control from the male. While others times, the lady is more in control. Most men don't even know that they are being manipulated. Come with me as you discover 6 common manipulation tactics some women use to control men. Manipulation …
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Sibling Rivalry: Is it a good or a bad ordeal?
Siblings: The Otedola Daughters (Temi, Florence, Tolani) For parents that had an only child, that means nothing like sibling rivalry. The child grows up all alone not having any form of rivalry, and you may want to add, all the love. Most times for even parents with just two children, there is no rivalry. This …
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How to Be a Baddie: The Ultimate Glow-Up Guide
Let’s be real: the term baddie isn’t just about looks. It’s a mindset. A vibe. A whole lifestyle. From how you carry yourself to how you secure your bag, being a baddie is about confidence, self-worth, and leveling up in every area of your life. If you've ever looked at any lady and thought, “Wow, …
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