DOES A MAN GAIN ANYTHING FROM HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS?

A man and his friends

Does a man really gain anything from having female friends? One of the questions that bug too many too few.

While most men feel there is no need to have a friend of the opposite sex. Some do feel that it’s necessary to give them a different outlook.

For most guys, female friends provide balance, and a social circle to meet other women.

It also gives an unbiased insight into the female mind from someone not trying to seduce you. Most men believe female friends are a superpower!

I decided to reach out to a few younglings ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ. You should see what they had to say.

I SEE HIM LOOSING OUT MORE ~ Guinea Jessica

If I answer, Iโ€™d be biased. Men are givers and women are mostly on the receiving ends.


So I canโ€™t say a man will gain financial benefits. I donโ€™t know much about what heโ€™d gain from having lots of female friends, I see him loosing out more. I canโ€™t say for sure.

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Well… I will keep my mouth shut, so you can read more. Guinea Jessica โ€” the first female, actually wants to see the responses of others. Let’s go onto the next

THEY GIVE YOU LISTENING EARS ~ Ogele Emmanuel

For Ogele Emmanuel, the first guy on the blog post, he has this to say:

Not to generalize but my female friends are cool. They’re easier to have a nice conversation with. The reasonable ones.

They give you listening ears. If you have the ones doing well financially they could easily come through for you. A lot bro!

Hmmm… Let’s see what another guy, Francis, has to say.

YOU WON’T EVEN THINK OF HAVING SEX WITH HER ~ Francis Obiloro

Francis Obiloro

Yes, it depends on my friend. Especially, if you have a female friend that is goal driven and has a dream, she can put you on track to the right path.

Funny enough you won’t even think of having sex with her because you see her like a valuable asset to you that you don’t want to loose.

A valuable asset. I’m learning a lot. Time to hear from another female.

I DON’T BELIEVE IN FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. ~ Jessica Iroh

I don’t really look at the gender. Friends are important. [Friends] can connect you to opportunities.

I personally love to look at friendship without the gender aspect. Why are we on earth in the first place? To fulfill our purpose and friends that can get you through that, will be all you need.

I don’t believe in friends with benefits and all of that cocky stuff.

I guess Jessica Iroh had to add the last line! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

IF YOU CAN HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BROS, YOU CAN HAVE THE SAME WITH A LADY. ~ George

George

First off, the idea of a relationship of either same sex or opposite being a place to gain or lose, makes it a transactional relationship and not a friendship.

Secondly, women are just as human as men, and if you can have a healthy relationship with your bros, you can have the same with a lady.

Now it also depends on the type of person he or she is, that determines that kind of friendship.

I have a very small circle of people I call my friends, and in that circle, there are both guys and girls. And I don’t see them as who I gain from, in the aspect of materialism.

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My friend are people I would come through for in a heartbeat, and they also come through for me without question and we impart so much positivity in each others’ lives.

So yes, a guy can gain positively from his female friends.
I know some folk do not agree, and that’s fine. That’s their orientation and perspective to life. I do not subscribe to that however.

George had to lecture us! Now we move onto the last lady for today โ€” Paula Asinobi

PEOPLE GAIN THINGS FROM HAVING FRIENDS. ~ Paula Asinobi

I would answer this question from the angle that generally people gain things from having friends.

Male to male, male to female, female to male and whatsoever. So yes, a man gains from having female friends.

Onto our last male, who I guess has the answer a lot of males have been looking forward to.

THERE’S ONLY SO MUCH A GUY FRIEND CAN DO ๐Ÿ˜‚ ~ Ebipado Akintola

Ebipado Akintola

Definitely [a man gains from having female friends]. There’s only so much a guy friend can do ๐Ÿ˜‚.

Sha have both, they both have their advantages and disadvantages.

If you know what Ebipado meant from his response, heaven is far from you o๐Ÿ˜…. Cos I had no idea what he meant.

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