So like I promised an anticipation in LOVE IN A KALEIDOSCOPE 1.0. I am here with it. This is the completed version of LOVE IN A KALEIDOSCOPE. The part where we get to hear the voice of males of the three set of persons—-THE SINGLE GUY, THE GUY IN LOVE & THE HEARTBROKEN GUY.
The bios of these guys were dropped in LOVE IN A KALEIDOSCOPE 1.0. So, you can go back to check out their awesome bios.
THE MUSINGS OF THE SINGLE GUY
So for our first guy, which is the single guy; we do have Preacher Khayleb; who I would call Khayleb for the duration of this interview.
I: Good evening, Mr. Khayleb; you are the male who’s currently in love. What’s your take on love?
KHAYLEB: Well love goes beyond fiddling with nipple, giving blowjobs, living on Kamasutra styles…. I think it is emphatic, it’s what you choose to honour, cherish and value
I: Wow! for a man who is single, you seem to know your onions about love. You are currently single; any reason for that?
KHAYLEB: (chuckles) I’m still waiting for her to shoot her shots (more chuckles). The reason is because finding love right now will be a distraction to me… kind of….
I: As lovely as it is, most ladies do find it cowardly for a man to wait for a lady to approach him. Or, are you saying you want to ensure that the lights are quite green before shooting your shots?
KHAYLEB: Yes ooo…. though, sometimes I tend to be colour blind. I just don’t want my shot to pierce a skin fair skin. Cos I’m so gentle
I: (laughing really haaaardd!) Guy, you just burst my bubbles. I wouldn’t really know what you mean by ‘skin fair skin’. Are you saying she gives off mixed signals? and you want to be really sure of the coast before shooting?
KHAYLEB: Exactly! you know girls and emotions
I: So Mr. Khayleb, as Phaneeyah, a lady obviously love struck; said her lover was the only one coming at the time she accepted; have you ever thought maybe she’s waiting earnestly for your shot?
KHAYLEB: Yes, she is. cos now the green light is like a spotlight hovering over my head, but I just want to take my time. Slow and steady still wins the race.
I: Well, most times ladies misinterpret signals…. your delay might be misconstrued as a loss of interest. From your definition; you said love is emphatic, something to hold and to cherish. Do you see yourself having grandchildren with your crush?
KHAYLEB: Most definitely, If she doesn’t fuck up. But, we go on burger and coke dates (chuckles). But she understand I’m so busy for us(our life together)
I: Wow! if you are this busy for love, how about when you get married (thinking seriously). Do you think love conquers all? should love be prioritized over every other thing?
KHAYLEB: Yes it does, at least the love of God (chuckles). I’m not only busy for love oooo. Life after University graduation, Career and many more.
I: Mr. Khayleb; you’re still avoiding the question. (chuckles) Do you think love conquers every other thing?I:
KHAYLEB: Yes it does. Love conquers!
I: Would you prioritize love over work?
KHAYLEB: If you have love, you’ll work most definitely…… then you have love for the work you do, so you’ll deliver
I: (laughs) I see….. So Khayleb, Do you think love is for everyone?
KHAYLEB: Everyone loving is not crime. But, it’s now crime if people claim they love; when they don’t know how to love.
I: But do you think everyone would eventually find love?I:
KHAYLEB: Everyone will, even if it is for God or something inanimate.
I: Wow…..I’m awed at this new knowledge. I’m sure our audience are equally wowed. Do you think money has an influence on love, Preacher Khayleb?
KHAYLEB: People should stop loving for money. That’s not the real essence. It has to do with emotions and you know we can’t buy emotions and feelings.
I: This is lovely. It was really lovely having you over; Preacher Khayleb. Thank you so much for stopping by; hope to have you some other time.
KHAYLEB: Thanks bro; It’s a privilege.
I: Guys you can hit him up on Facebook: Preacherman Khayleb; and on Instagram on @pee_khayleb. Have an anticipated love life, Preacher Khayleb; nice to have you over!
THE MUSINGS OF THE SINGLE GUY
So, you can equally look up the bio of our single guy on LOVE IN A KALEIDOSCOPE 1.0.
I: So Mr. Isaac; You are the male currently in love? What’s your take on love?
ISAAC: Well, I think love is when you can comfortably be with a girl even during her menstrual cycle without hoping for her to go home quick😏.
It’s when you picture a girl as part of your future plans. When you feel so relaxed and peaceful around her.
I: Wow! I believe so many ladies would be touched by your definition. Are you currently in love? and what won you over to love her?
ISAAC: (Chuckles) Yes, I am currently in love. I don’t know what attracted me to her. It just came!
I: Wow! Do you think your love story would come to an end? Or it would migrate to something bigger?
ISAAC: I don’t know bro, I hope so. But, I can’t decide for both of us.
I: Oh! I understand; the uncertainty that comes with love. Do you think love is for everyone?
ISAAC: Yeah, Sure! Only those who believe.
I: Wow! Mr. Isaac; you’re definitely saying Love isn’t for everyone, what makes you say so?
ISAAC: Cos most people have locked up their minds concerning love
I: Do you think money has an influence on love?
ISAAC: I think it doesn’t
I: Wow! This is quite contrary to what most believe. I think you are saying money didn’t influence the decision of your lover.
ISAAC: (laughs) I’m broke, bro. So, definitely it didn’t.
I: Mr. Isaac; I must admit that its been amazing having you here with your candid opinions. I do hope you stop by sooner than later; but before you go, what’s your advice for the singles and the heartbroken?
ISAAC: Singles, please do not rush to look for love. It comes naturally.
As for the heartbroken, don’t give up!
I: “Don’t give up”. I am sure the heartbroken won’t after your opinions. It was really awesome having you here.
I: Guys, you can look him up on social media. Facebook: Isaac B. Igbanibo jnr and on Twitter: @Ur_Fadar
THE MUSINGS OF THE HEARTBROKEN GUY
Our heartbroken guy who pleaded anonymity would be referred to as Mr. X; so no bio from him.
I: What’s your take on love, Mr X?I:
MR X: God is Love
I: (laughs) this reply cracked me up. Okay, Mr X…. I never meant Agape Love, I meant the romantic one or what you might call ‘eros love’ I think. What’s your take on love?
MR X: Okay, Love in this sense gotta be giving your best to bring out the best in the other person
I: Wow! I must admit, I am awed. You must have been in love to be heartbroken. With all honesty, Mr X; what made her win you over?I:
MR X: It was a conscious effort to give the relationship a try; nothing actually won me over
I: Wow wow wow! Mr X, are you saying you were not in love when you went in for the relationship?
MR X: Naaaaah. That kinda love can be learnt and that was what happened exactly.
I: This is awesomely nouvelle. I’ve learnt that love can be learned but I doubted it. Could you give a small hint about it? Teach one or a few persons how you learnt to love someone.
MR X: I can’t right now. But same way you can learn to master solving a mathematical problem, that’s how you can learn to love somebody over time. You just have to make conscious efforts if you truly want that person to be a part of your life.
I: Wow! Mr. X you really sound like a connoisseur in the love jungle. So, does heartbroken mean it was not you that instigated the break up?
MR X: I did actually. Cos I felt stressed not because the love died
I: Wow! was your heart broken? Did you ever see your love story with her as one you’d have grandkids with as Phaneeyah had opined?
MR X: At some point, I was heartbroken. We reconciled though. Honestly, there wasn’t a ‘plan’ for the ‘future’. We was suppose to go with flow but I guess she had another route figured out already.
I: Aaaaaaaahhhhh! Mr X. I think you might have pulled a switch; but then….I won’t indulge. Do you really think that everyone would eventually find love?
MR X: I can’t tell. I’m not “everyone” 😀
I: (laughs so hard) Mr X… you’re really an anonymous one. What about you? Would you find love?
MR X: I’m in the race already
I: Aaaaahhhhh! (laughs) I am really cracked up, Mr X. Do you think money has an influence on love?
MR X: In today’s world, yes. When you find the right one, it doesn’t really. But you gotta ‘have it’ to ‘keep her’ in shape. So we have to hustle for the paper
I: I am really cracked, I really am. So, you think money would influence your next relationship; especially seeing as you might not be Bill Gates.
MR X: See, the plan is not to be broke. So I’mma get the paper. I’ve had girls around on my broke days so I’m definite there are girls that are not about the money and fine things. For my next, I’d wanna spoil her and that requires money.
I: This is awesome, Mr X. I understand as a guy; its really not easy opening up…..So, it was nice of you! But for my curiosity, are you still heartbroken?
MR X: How can I be? 😂🤣😂
I: (laughs) Any piece of advice for the heartbroken, Mr X?
MR X: They should mend their broken heart and find money.
I: This was awesomely awesome. Thanks for stopping by, Mr X.
Sadly, his contact can’t be shared; since he’s Mr. X! But then, I am glad we finally came to the end of this one. You could share your views to support or contrast what they could have said in the comment box!
Stay tuned! and anticipate the next blog post!
4 Replies to “LOVE IN A KALEIDOSCOPE 2.0”
The point where Isaac said he’s broke cracked me up 😂. I like the fact that he’s being real 👍
To an extent, I agree with Mr. X when he said love can be learnt. A stroll down memory lane back to the era of arranged marriage, the women who found themselves in such learnt to love their husbands. The love might not have been there at first, it developed and grew in the marriage. My opinion, I think it’s easier for a woman to learn to love than it is for a man although, men tend to bottle up emotions but come-on, love isn’t something that can be hidden…. it can only be suppressed for while.
If I say I am not learning then you know that I am a liar.
Truly, men tend to bottle up emotions; the society made them strong or made them feel they had to be strong.
The only contrary opinion I have is the one love cannot be hidden. I think it actually can; for instance, I currently like a girl; but I betcha she would never know. You’d think its mood swing, but its an intentional act to put her in the position.
Lol… You can actually hide your feelings cos the keyword there is “Like”. Love is a strong word and like Adaora said, it’s a process. You don’t fall in love, you grow in love. For now, you LIKE the girl. It’s either you continue suppressing the feeling or you let it grow to LOVE 😂
Thanks Queen B